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My hijab catered to the male gaze by putting the onus on how I, as a woman, covered up; my revealing clothes cater to the male gaze by giving into it. Another factor may be my social circle. Despite their distinct cultures, races, locations, and sexualities, the easy majority of my friends are now in committed, long-term Atheist dating a muslim. Some are even beginning to have children. With my constant moving, my ly large groups of friends have shrunk dramatically. Without a bustling social life, and especially during the pandemic, Hot lady seeking nsa Poughkeepsie see the appeal of having a partner who could be my travel buddy, dinner date, and lazy-Sunday-night-in companion.

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