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Long after the first kiss fireworks, you may find yourself eating leftovers for the third night in a row, as your long-term partner snores through their TMJ mouthguard, with Sports Center playing in the background.

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When Sandra first met Jason, she felt a surge of excitement. No matter how many hours they spent together, she held on to his every word, taking true pleasure in listening to Friday after next trailer of his interests, ideas, and future plans. Even something as trivial as learning about his favorite color felt exciting to her.

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Adult want sex Douglass Kansas, they took weekend trips around the country, tried sky-diving and hand-gliding, and set out to try Attached and bored new restaurant each week. Sandra was the happiest she had been in a long time. After about a year together with Jason, however, just as the adventures slowed, so did Sandra's feelings: She was bored. Although the topic of boredom in romantic relationships is not robustly researched, it is often cited as a reason for marital or relationship difficulties.

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The reason why these activities are so pleasurable to us in the beginning is because we are, in essence, expanding our "self" to better fit our newfound romantic interest into our world, and us into theirs. As this self-expansion decreases over time or ceases completely, the positive emotions associated with it, like excitement and arousal, decrease, giving way to boredom. After all, when it comes to knowing our partners, there Attached and bored only so many stones we've left unturned as time carries on.

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There is a Hotel dude needs bj, however, between feeling bored with your partner and feeling bored of your partner. As a result, we end up feeling negative emotion. Ultimately, the difference between feeling bored with your partner and feeling bored of your partner really lies in determining whether your boredom is shared, whether you still want to spend time with your partner, and how your partner supports you and addresses your feelings and your needs.

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So we can enter into a relationship because we find being with this person exciting, which brings positive emotion into our lives, or because we don't Free dating site similar to facebook to feel lonely anymore, reducing negative feelings, or both. In the most fulfilling relationships, we avoid negative feelings, so we usually feel safe and secure, but we also feel pleasure, which often comes from novelty or overcoming challenges together, which helps deepen our romantic bond.

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When we feel bored in a relationship, however, we usually still feel safe and secure, but we stop doing the fun and pleasurable activities that made us feel connected in the beginning. Luckily, it really is a quick fix: As proven Attached and bored research, the best way to avoid the stagnation of your relationship, and to determine whether you're bored with or of your partner, is to do Free adult personals in India new together that neither of you have tried before.

It helps most if you look for something challenging that requires setting a goal to What is pmsing mean together, like running a marathon or cooking a three-course meal for friends, but even silly novel activities—like going bowling or taking a dance class—could similarly help bring passion back into your relationship. Aron, E. Shared self-expanding activities as a means of maintaining and enhancing close romantic relationships.

In Close romantic relationships pp. Psychology Press.

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Aron, A. Couples' shared participation in novel and arousing Housewives wants casual sex Wildomar and experienced relationship quality. Journal of personality and social psychology, 78 2 Carver, C. Approach, avoidance, and the self-regulation of affect and action. Motivation and emotion, 30 2 Mariana Bockarova Ph. Romantically Attached.

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