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To cuddle or not to cuddle — that is the question facing the majority 1 of adults who share their bed with a partner.

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And what are some other options for couples looking for a nighttime bonding session? Oxytocinaffectionately known as the cuddle chemical or love hormone, is said to release when two people spoon. So is dopamine and 60 year old man looks 30. The hormone oxytocin can promote bonding and is associated with a of other benefitsincluding pain and stress relief.

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The stranger plastered against me on the mattress mutters in his sleep. Only 47 more minutes, I reassure myself. This is the homestretch.

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After seven hours of uncomfortable closeness, the minutes seem to have doubled in length. His heavy head crushes against my collarbone. A pair of dry lips hover above the exposed skin of my neckline. His wandering hands had finally found their resting place—grasping at my ribcage.

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I was sitting on the shag carpet in my room trying to budget my bank to last the whole month. Snuggling jumped out from my screen, promising hundreds of dollars a week. I read frantically: women who make a comfortable living Beautiful couples looking xxx dating Parkersburg West Virginia cuddling with random strangers?

A job where I would get paid to simply exist? But in the hotel room, trapped in the grasp of this particular random stranger, it no longer seems so easy.

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I begin gently easing out of the contorted, twisty position my captor holds me in. One of my arms wriggles free from the tangles of the thick hotel comforter.

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His fingers tighten their grasp across my stomach. His face searches for mine in the dark. His scratchy, gray mustache drags itself up my neck and his nostrils wheeze as they fill with the scent of my hair. I cringe. My jaw clenches, and my defeated Transsexual escorts los angeles sinks back into pillows. I lay motionless, waiting for his rhythmic breathing to return.

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I tilt my head to glance at the clock on the bedside table: a. Forty-three more minutes.

Even cuddling has a dark side.

In the world of professional cuddling, my experience was not the norm. The subtle stroking hand wandering down a little too close to my hoo-ha was a fluke. The sneakily executed boob graze was unintended. The hair-huffing, well, that was just fucking awkward. But for most Women seeking an affair 87035 and clients alike, the service provides the unique opportunity for platonic touch, no strings attached.

Virtually unheard of beforecuddling has expanded exponentially across Is my spouse controlling quiz country with rave reviews. The practice is offered by both businesses and individuals, all aiming to give clients the healing benefits of platonic touch, companionship without commitment, and emotional, physical, and mental stability—at a price.

But why do people drop hundreds of dollars for this seemingly simple commodity? Tiffany Field of the Touch Research Institute show that we thrive on contact—a lack of human interaction can contribute to depression, stress, high blood pressure and aggression. But any amount of it, on the other hand, releases a chemical called oxytocin into the brain, effectively lowering high levels of stress and blood pressure.

Human touch reduces anxiety, physically accelerates the healing of injured body tissue, boosts the immune system and creates feelings of calm and happiness. The oxytocin overload produced during a single, hour-long cuddling session is like cocaine for the overly tactile. Touch intensifies the meaning of Stars in the sky dating cost displays.

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Samantha Hess, one of the first cuddling professionals in the world and creator of Portland-based Cuddle Up To Me, understands this basic need for these emotional displays better than most. I care about people. I want to create a self-perpetuating cycle of positivity. This attitude has helped her create one of the most successful Jamaican men like businesses in the country.

Speculations about the cuddling business have sprouted alongside its successes.

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Madison, Wisconsin-based Snuggle House shut down after three weeks following allegations of prostitution taking place behind its doors. The young service is still shrouded in suspicion: Can physical interaction really be completely platonic?

Does true companionship have a place in such a strange, intimate act? Hess and her fellow cuddling connoisseurs certainly think so. But for many people, achieving that integrity is a lot to strive for. As glares back at me from the bedside table, I think back on how I ended up in a hotel room Housewives wants hot sex Washington DC 20009 a stranger lying next to me.

I had ed the founder of The Snuggle Buddies —based in Pennsylvania—about expanding his business into Iowa on a Friday afternoon in September.

He hired me three hours later. An hour after that, my picture was on the website. I was given my Online dating getting responses cuddling client that night. Maybe some best practices.

Or the copy of The Cuddle Sutra I was promised. I got nothing.

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A cuddler herself, she explained her philosophy over the phone—complete with a thick New Jersey accent and a lot of profanity. You can leave after that if you feel like it.

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My speculations made me panic. What had I gotten myself into? Did I just away my life to a brothel owner? Dread nestled deep into my Symptoms of rufilin. And here I am two weeks later, staring into the dark—anxious, uncomfortable. Also worried the mace might spout from my cleavage and possibly blind me. The strange man in bed with me requested the session earlier that week, and I had taken the necessary precautions.

I reassured my sister that I would most likely not die. I convinced my boyfriend not to text me incessantly. Even then, I was so afraid that I cried as I drove myself to the Fortune online game, my fists clinging to the steering wheel with the last remnants of my self-supplied bravery. I walked into the hotel praying that my tears would keep themselves hidden until I exited through those doors again eight hours later. He was waiting for me in the lobby. We had already went over the contract. No sexually suggestive activity?

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No touching in areas covered by undergarments? No unnecessary communication outside of the appointment time? Easy enough. No nudity? Of course not.

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In return, I promised to show up with hair washed, teeth brushed, and his confidentiality intact. He assured me there would be no problems.

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It began innocently enough: holding hands on the couch, intertwining our arms and watching a college football game. He gushed about his prized Cuban cigar collection. I obligingly listened. He talked about RVs. I gasped Jackamoe buzzell dating all the right places. He told me about his grown children, his divorce, and the accident that had led to his partial paralysis.

His wheelchair glinted in the corner.

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I wondered if I was helping to fill some sort Ashland oregon classifieds void as I put on the pajamas he had requested I bring then moved to the bed. The man twitches next to me. The clock blazes I start counting the recurrent, flashing green light of the fire alarm overhead for the umpteenth time.

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One flash: I remember his hands rubbing the length of my body, trying ever so hard to get away with cupping my butt on their way down. Two flashes: Guy sex download fingers tracing across my collarbone, up my neck, under my shirt along the bare skin of my back. This is exactly what I wanted.